Tuesday, June 21, 2016

Expected Adoption Timeline

Here is the timeline our adoption process should stick to. The adoption process is one that changes all of the time and without notice, so this is by no means a definite schedule. Then add in things like paperwork delays and things can really start to change, but we are praying that God is present in every detail of this adoption and our family. We are trusting that His timing is PERFECT and each step (good or bad) will lead us to our amazing child.

*We are also including the approximate costs for each step, as to be be open and transparent with our friends and family. And because one of the most asked questions is "why does it cost so much?!"

6/13/16 - Application Submitted
($300 due at time of applying)

Adoption Homestudy
($2,500-$2,900 due before the first home visit)

  • A homestudy is required by law. A social worker visits our home and will interview each of us, and make an overall assessment of the life, home, environment our adopted child will be entering into.  
  • This takes around 2-4 months to complete.

(U.S. Processing Fee $3,500 due after Holt approves your homestudy)

  • The cost for our adoption agency to handle all of the paperwork on the U.S. side.


Assigned to our Child
(Adoption Program Fee $22,500 due when you accept the assignment of a child)

  • It usually takes about 4 months after our homestudy is completed to get assigned to a child
  • We will receive a photo along with a description and medical overview of the child. We should have a couple of days to decide if we feel capable of caring for said child.
  • The adoption program fee helps cover the cost to facilitate the adoption in South Korea and the needs for our little one prior to bringing them home (food clothing, shelter, etc.).

(Post-Placement Fee $1200-$2800 due when you accept the assignment of a child and before travel scheduling begins)

  • This fee pays for the meetings and reports done after we bring home the newest Smith.


Travel to South Korea - 2 weeklong trips with about a month in between
($8,000-$15,000 due at time of booking travel - flights, hotels, food, etc.)
(Korea Travel Fee $800 due when you accept the assignment of a child - covers transportation while in South Korea)

  • It could take around 9 months to receive "our call" after receiving our assignment.
  • We will receive a call a couple of weeks before we can book our first trip, with word that we can go meet our child! 
  • The first trip will consist of a lot of legal stuff, but is also when we can first meet our little one! They will be in a foster home and this trip will give us an opportunity to ask questions of their foster parents and observe how they interact. 
  • We will then have to go home for about a month before we receive our second call to go get our baby!!


Adoption Finalization 
($25-$1,500 due when we re-finalize the adoption in Tennessee)

*Please feel free to ask any questions you might have! We love talking about this amazing journey and God's heart for adoption.

Saturday, June 18, 2016

Choosing South Korea

We have chosen and applied to...(drumroll)... South Korea!!
We officially have a home country for our child! We now have a specific timeline, fee schedule, nationality, culture, etc to help put a face to our newest Smith. :)

So, after being between South Korea and Thailand for a while, and after much praying together and separately, I felt that God wanted us to pursue South Korea, but I wanted to make sure that Todd was hearing the same thing and it wasn't just me in his ear. He mentioned that he was leaning towards South Korea, but wanted a "clear" answer from God. So we waited to make sure we were truly following God's will.

Then one night we decided to watch "Dropbox" on Netflix, which is about a baby dropbox a man created to decrease the abandoned babies and have a safe place for parents to drop their babies off at if they felt like they could not care for them. (I highly recommend this documentary!) The opening scene said "SEOUL, SOUTH KOREA" and my heart skipped a beat. Something in me just clicked, I wanted to laugh, cry, and jump up and down. God is faithful to answer those who ask. After the movie, Todd quickly turned towards me and said, "Let's apply to South Korea!" I love watching how God talks to each of us and confirms our questions.

So, we did it! We applied to Holt International's South Korea program on June 13, 2016.


Please continue to pray for our family as we follow God's will towards the newest Smith!